I would just like to say thank you to Steve out ICT genius who put that video clip on for me. I would also like to explain I had just been suffering from larengitus the day before and do not smoke 80 woodbine ciggerettes a day, allthough I have a deep voice, I am told. The Clip is about Jason who I had watched since Nursery. He had gross motor difficulties (fell over sat down) but as he was a big lad we waited. He started showing signs of learnin/behavior difficulties in reception and was in my special group for children who needed support but made no progress. By year one this was becoming a concern and he attended the programme. As I am 5′ 1″ It was a struggle but I even had to lift him to hop as he had a real weak side and had real problems with co-ordination and especially listening. As all the children on the programme are like this at the beginning I was used to it. Over a year he achieved everything and he could balance brilliantly. He progressed in class and came out of my class and works at the same level as his peers with no support. His behavior is impecable, as are his manners, and he is a gorgeous little boy. It wasn’t a case of leaving him because of imaturities because if left I would have supported him for years as his behavior and learning would have become worse and he would have been given a label. I know that the programme helped him and yes! I was bursting with pride when his Dad told me what he had achieved,the same as his parents, but I do that with every child.
The most important qualification I have, is many years of experience working with children, as many teaching assistants do. We are childcare apprentices. The only thing is our apprenticeship is ever lasting. Teachers are there to teach, and we are there to support them, by observing what’s going on around them in class. We are the eyes in the back of their heads. As an old TA I hate how the goverment want to have teachers with degree’s fast tracking and being able to teach in 6 month’s. My idea is TA’s should be paid more and cover for them. That way they would have experienced apprentices who know the children in that class, the work and behaviour would be consistant. But then Iv’e only worked in a school for over 20 years, what would I know. If people are impressed with paperwork, I have in fact numerous certificates for attending course after course on Autism/Aspergers, ADHD,dyslexia, learning/ behaviour problems, First aid, team teach (restraining) and NVQ’s for childcare. All of which are in a beautiful black leather portfolio and proudley positioned at work, marked “CV”. This impressive show of A4 magnificence means nothing to me, it is to prove that I went on a course and listened to experts and was certified. The real apprenticeship was the years at a time I supported children with autism/aspergers, cerebral palsey, dyslexia, ADHD (before and after ritalin) epilepsey, learning and behaviour difficulties. It’s the chair chuckers, the obssessive, the emotional, the frustration, the child on a 5 minute behaviour chart, projectile vomitting, accidents in pants, and the scissors whizzing past your ears, just to mention a few highlights of my long career that isn’t ever logged onto a certificate.What I hate is that you have young girls who get the same certificate as you when old birds like me have had years of experience. But if life was just that simple!…………..
I was not born to be brave, compassionate, caring, tolerant and patient, I was given the opportunity to learn these qualities through life, and by looking after children. Over the years through a need to support children with special needs, I have endeavoured to support children to reach their full potential.
Within School I have held workshops to enable staff in schools to start their own screening and exercise programmes. One of the most important times at these meetings was when staff talked and shared experiences and knowledge.
This website will give you the opportunity to ask questions. If I don’t know the answer someone else may help me and I will find out for you. Many parents feel isolated as they feel they are the only ones experiencing difficulties.
Many books and websites give you information and definitions about Dyspraxia. You can attend centers at a price, and if you have the finance to be able to do this, that is fine. But many Parents are vulnerable and emotional because of a child’s special needs. They should never be put in a position of financial burden and guilt that they couldn’t afford this option.
I read recently that in Europe they have just 1% dyspraxia in children. They start school at 6-7 years old when motor skills are developed. Our children start at 3 years old and are expected to follow the national curriculam. Childrens motor skills have not had a chance to develop yet they are expecting to learn when their brain isn’t ready. Since starting my programme in the mainstream school I work in I have witnessed the most dramatic change in our special needs register. I used to watch children that were put on at school action (making parents aware there is a problem) moving up and up untill every resource had been exausted. Children would eventually be diagnosed with Dyspraxia by occupational therapists. They were told “good luck”(most of the time) and advised to read books about Dyspraxia as they didn’t have the funding to support them. At the point of diagnosis ( at around 7 years old) their child could have low self esteem, learning/behavior difficulties, gross/fine, balance, perceptual, speech/language difficulties and social problems imbedded into them and be there for years causing problems. Through early intervention I screen children in Nursry/reception who are showing difficulties and “Guess what!” they all have under - developed motor skills. In reception they start the programme and over a year we strengthen the motors which in turn corrects and develops the brain and children start learning at the same pace as their peers. We no longer have big gaps in learning, dyslexia, autism/aspergers, ADHD, learning/behaviour difficulties like we used to. I call them all “late developers” The only children we have with difficulties are ones that didnt have MSD or have come from other schools and didn’t have the programme to correct them. Then we have to support them like we used to in the past. All the children on the programme started off with tracking difficulties and I realised that if their bodies were never balanced then they never learnt that first basic skill of fixating a moving object. A school nurse checks for focus not Fixating, fusion, fields and flexibility that are esential in learning (especially reading and writing) and taking in information. Out of 130 children 3 have gone on to have light therapy to correct this fault which had never been picked up if they hadn’t accessed the programme and it was highlighted. Six children who attended speech therapy had never had their motor skills checked and all had significant weaknesses. Once they had been on the programme they progressed significantly with their speech. Once their bodies were balanced high motor activity in some children dissappeared where as they would have been investigated for ADHD. Once processing increased Autism/aspergers wasn’t investigated further. And once Dyspraxia was illiminated Dyslexia dissappeared.
I have given talks recently to a support group who thought I was saying that there was no such thing as Dyslexia, but there is. I screen children who have under -develped motor skills and this stops them from learning. You have two sides of the brain, one side see’s individual (think of individual letters) A B T . The other side works with that side to make it into a whole (word) BAT. Because the body wasn’t balanced and children had a weak side and the brain wasn’t working together. Once children got past the CVC stage and into year 1 in which they had to start blending two sounds together and this is when they couldn’t progress. They would have started years of struggling and usually thought to be dyslexic because of this learning difficulty. I know, because I have in supported hundreds of children with (what I thought) was dyslexia. Since I started the programme I dont see it. Children’s bodies are now strengthened and balanced which in turn does the same to the brain and this difficulty is corrected before damage can be caused and children can now learn. There is Dyslexia but we get it from children from other schools or MSD wasnt the root cause. I shouldn’t say Dyspraxia, this is the label you get when an expert eventually diagnoses you. Our school never gets to the label stage anymore.

Hi
my name is Helen Jones. I have 3 sons aged 22, 20 and 18. All boys are lovely, kind, and gentle with a great desire to be liked. Unfortunately they did not get along well at school, all 3 having band 5 statements. they all have atrocious handwriting and have never shown a great interest in playing sports. They all found maths the most difficult concept to grasp. School was extremely difficult as despite coming from a fairly educated background they were all consigned to the lower streams and were often isolated and bullied. Despite a great deal of support from both myself and my husband and being fortunate enough to attend an excellent small comprehensive school where they were to some extent ‘protected’ from the more agressive elements of society both older boys hold driving licences (even though it took them a large number of occasions to get after many many more lessons than their peers) and the younger one is hoping to take his driving test before the end of the year.
Our older son works in a factory, doing a mundane job. our middle son has been out of work for almost a year after leaving college where he had limited success in hospitality and despite attending countless interviews has so far been unsuccessful in getting a job. Youngest son is hoping to be taken onto a government training course soon.
All boys still live at home, have very few friends.
We did initiate some basic genetic counselling to find out if there was a problem but nothing ever came to light. I recall our eldest son being screened for dyslexia at approx 7 years old but was found negative.
Having read your article in the Yorkshire Post (27 August 2008) I really think that they might all have an element of dyspraxia. is there anyway that tests can be done? I have printed off the exercises you suggest for younger children and recognise some as those my 2 younger sons did at school with their learning support teachers.
If you have any thoughts on the above I would be most interested to hear from you.
Kind regards
Helen Jones
Helen Thank you so much for your response so quickly and especially reading the article. I am delighted at how Daniel Radcliffe has high lighted Dyspraxia and I am desperately trying to contact him as he has such a high profile it would be great. The reason I started all this (if you look at my web site) is because my son was statemented for Dyslexia and I now know he had Dyspraxia. He is 27 years old now and he is still at home. And we have had all the same problems. Fortunately he went to college and trained as a chef but did verbal exams as his writing was so bad. He never pursued this and is in building, but it gave him 3 years of making friends and achieving as a chef. As for interviews as dyspraxics stuggle with processing quickly interviews are atrocious as new information is thrown at them quickly and the cant answer quickly enough and like most the ignorant interviewer will imediately think they are slow. If you were to write to them explaining that they were Dyslexic(it is more acceptable and known) they would have to by law let you give written answers and hopefully see what an assett your son would be.Please read my book as I wrote it to try and help parents like myself who had no one to help them. You may find yourself seeing your children in the cases I write about and this will give you the screening you need. E-mail me any time as it helps to share problems.
I have taught English in the classroom and have come across
quite a number of pupils with reading and handwriting problems.
If you know of some text or tape that explains Dyspraxia I
would like to purchase it.
I am sure it would enlighten my teacher friends and myself
and thus benefit the pupils ultimately.
Frank
Frank! are you the gentleman I wrote to following a letter you sent me. How are you? I have written a book that explains all this, if you send me your address again I will send you one or you can buy it directly from the publishers which is on the “My book and workshops” blog. I have just given a talk to staff at Dewsbury and I have been able to pass on my knowledge to a few more. The more people that understand Dyspraxia the better it is for children.
Hi my name is Dominic I am 20 years old. A few weeks ago I was diagnosed with dyspraxia and always knew there was something wrong throughout my life. Is it too late, to learn how to dance?
Dominic
Thank you Dominic.I am what you would call old and I would never say it is to late. It depends what you want though. Our school was once visited by a young man who danced with covent garden ballet group. He was 20 years old and I was mesmerised. He was amazing and I will never forget the reaction he got from staff and pupils. He then told us that he had never been good at school and was sent to curb his Dyspraxia, ADHD and learning/behaviour problems. Dancing (especially the co0ordination helped him. Even if you go to join in with other people it wont harm you as you are making friends. My friens and I laugh more at our mistakes than we do in getting things perfect and right. Let me know how you get on.
Hi ,my child is four next month,he has a tentative diagnoses of Developmental Verbal dyspraxia,His speech output is rated at 2 percentile verses a normal childs score of about 78
I am finding it really tough to find any information about this problem.Your book is the first one in a long time that actually mentions Dyspraxia.Nobody around me has ever heard of it ,except for my sons Speech therapist.I look forward to obtainig a copy of your book,do you know if the publishing company will ship the book to Australia?
It certainly will Julie, or Amazon would, and if that fails let me know and I can send a copy myself. I am again so shocked at how Dyspraxia is never mentioned but I have found over the years that this is the problem in that professionals instead of all getting together all diagnose differently. Your son is just at the right age to make a difference. My theory if you read this website is to use preventative methods early to stop difficulties. I’ll tell you about my experiences of verbal dyspraxia. I have had 4 children in 7 years with speech/language problems (SPLD) You may think this isn’t many children over the years but up untill I started using the programme I saw children struggle for years making little or no progress and they all had some speech therapy as this was the obvious difficulty. No one had screened them and guess what! they all had motor skills difficulties (MSD) These children could not pronounce words and made little sense. They struggled to understand language. I see that because their body is not co-ordinated and unbalanced so is their speech (their muscle tone in their mouths becameweak) and because of slow processing understanding and processing information takes longer and is not co-ordinated. With my exercise programme I strengthen their bodies which strengthens their brains. Because of this both sides of the brain work together and are co-ordinated. Following the programme all the children are progressing with their speech. Two are getting better every day (without speech therapy) One is talking at the same pace as his friends )he never shuts up) and one who was statemented for SPLD and was thought to be Autistic has had that changed to mild Motor skills difficulties (since then he has now achieved everything) but the programme has highlighted his eyes (tracking) and he now has light therapy. He has no obvious signs of having any speech problems. He came to me in reception (4 years old) and is now in year 1 (5 years old) Please buy my book and if you can start a programme in school you will make a difference to alot of children. If you need more help e-mail me any time. But if their is anyone out their famous or with authority I need to pass it on.
I just want to say thankyou very much for the information your website and book have given me. I am currently writting a dissertation based on dyspraxia and the postive effects that physical education can have on children with dyspraxia. I was all about giving up hope because of lack of information on the subject area until i came across your book and website. The more i research dyspraxia the more it annoys me about the lack of information avaliable. Your exercise programme sounds brilliant and i look forward to implementing it when (if!) I ever get a full time teaching post. Thanks again, Emma
Thank you so much for this site. My son is age 9 and has dyspraxia. Sports are not easy for him, and his handwriting is poor. In fact, it was the handwriting that led us to seek help. It’s strange, because he met all developmental milestones. My first clue that something was wrong was that he had difficulty pedalling a trike.
Anyway, he has been going to OT for 10 weeks now. I am a bit disheartened because, although he has made progress, it is slow. I guess I just don’t know what to hope for. He is very bright, and his handwriting is an impediment. Since sports will probably not be his thing, I just want him to be able succeed academicall–where his strengths are. How much can his handwriting improve? I hate to give up and have him rely on the Alphasmart. Thanks, Ellie
Dear Ellie I am going to send some handwriting along for you to see by e-mail from a little boy who could hardly write. He had come from another school because they didnt have my programme. He did it for a year and achieved we redeveloped all his motor skills except one, and he still wrote badly. I noticed that he still couldnt track a moving abject (one of the exercises)a bean bag from side to side.
I had realised that when a baby makes unbalanced movements they also cant fixate and learn the basic skill of tracking a moving object (needed to read and write and take in information)He started with light therapy (an obtometrist in the yellow pages trained in this) which trained his eye muscles. I starteed by getting a picture on the computor (as a visual stimuli, and of interest) this little boy then wrote a story and we spell checked and tidied it up. We then printeed it and he wrote it out. I had taken away the stress of processing, imagination, spelling, punctuation, sentances, balancing, focussing, hoiolding your pen right, and especially speed.The pressure suddenly went and with his eyes trained he does the most beautiful joined up writing, better than most adults. When I get to a computor that fits my memory stick I will try and put it on for everyone to see. I also have 130 children with tracking difficulties so I know there is a link to motor skills difficulties as the root cause.
My son is six and has dsypraxia. Since the diagonse he has began to nor on his hand and nails even clothing and he stuffs his mouth with food I was wondering was this apart of dsypraxia
Yes it is, my son and most of the children I work with chew away at bits of themselves. My son had a permanant soggy sleeve and I am always getting spit wiped across my face at school. I’m afraid it’s also a sign of stress, a bit like a comfort blanket. If your little boy is 6 you should try him on my programme as this is the age where it will work and with this and as he gets better so will his learning and the stress will lesson. Trust me, I see it all the time.
My son is 10 and was formally assessed as having dyspraxia in January this year (2009), although we were very aware that something was quite wrong from about the age of 5.
We are currently struggling with school and the support that “they should” be provding. My sons medical consultant has requested that the school arrange for him to see an EP so that we can effectively get the “rubber stamp” required to allow him to use a PC or similar to prepare some of his work etc., (I am aware that he must also continue the handwrting practice). He’s a bright boy and processing is the biggest problem - getting his thoughts out and only paper,much like other dyspraxics.
However, the SENCO at school appears to want to block referral to an EP, giving us the impression that she can arrange all of the support/equipment he requires and also that just because he will be on SIMS he won’t need any form of statement to follow him throughout his educational career.
What are your thoughts on this? Is the SENCO correct?
Thanks for your help. Sarah
Sorry I was cooking for 15 at christmas.
Sarah, Oh! dear it’s the same old story, you have to wait untill the symtoms are so bad you get a label to say your son has dyspraxia. If anybody is out there listening you can do something (like me) when you know at 5 years old. As I have said before, when motor skills are under-developed at 4-5 you can re-develop them before the expersts leave it and all the bad teaching, ignorance and time is wasted. I need to show you the hand writing of a child I work with. If you use a computor with a child to write it takes the strain off them. Instead of thinking about holding the pen correctly,grip,processing, spelling,imagination and letter formation they just write and spell check later. A child I worked with used a computor for 6 months and then re-wrote everything. His handwriting improved untill it was better than me. His spelling is still abit dodgy but so is mine. The only way you will get any money is through having a statement, but they are very strict in giving money and support unless your child has 2 criteria ie. learning and behavior/physical and learning. Dyspraxia is the lowest (I have found) funded dissability. Dyspraxic children are very bright, it goes in, its just they cant get it out on paper. My son did verbal exams as many schools and collages do every thing they can to support this difficulty. Like our SENCO they are expected to play God sometimes and EP’s only give a limited amount of time to each special need child. We are lucky in our school in that we give children with motor skills difficulties the support with early intervention and stop the label and struggling for years and we can concentrate on other difficulties in other children.
If you can get a “rubber stamp” and get a laptop or the support you need, do it though, because I was too weak and let the authorities walk all over me and my son suffered. If you have had advice, go for it. Merry christmas by the way and keep in touch as I like to help as much as I can.
Hi, I have read the above and your website with interest, and wonder if you might have any advice for me. I have a nine year old son who was diagnosed with Dyspraxia 2 years ago. It took us from Reception Year to Year 3, watching our son become more and more frustrated and not understanding why the Teachers and his contemporaries could not see that he was as bright as the rest of them. I questioned all of his teachers about whether he might have had a learning difficulty to which they all replied absolutely not. After a very difficult time we moved our son to a small independent School, which we hoped would be able to support him more and bring out what we and he knew was in him. In Year 4 his Teacher thank goodness observed that he was bright and did work hard and that maybe there was a reason that he was underachieving. That is when we had him tested. I had not even thought about dyspraxia, as our son had good hand eye coordination skills, and was reading well. He is v good at sports such as cricket and tennis, but struggles more with fast moving sports such as rugby and football.
School is getting much better for him now, but I am fearful of what will happen at Secondary School, and am wondering how to approach the Local comprehensive and what questions I should be asking them. I am not very assertive, and as our Son’s dyspraxia seems quite mild, many teachers don’t believe he has a problem at all, even when I have put his report in front of their noses.
Our middle Son, is now having similar difficulties at his Primary School He has been held down a year and absolutely hates School. He has hypermobility and does trip over a lot, yet seems to hold a pencil well and use his knife and fork well and is very good with lego. I have expressed my concerns to his teachers and his head, who is an experienced SENCO, who have responded by giving him an early dyslexia screening, which will not show dyspraxia. He is a really bright boy and I am desperate to help him enjoy School and am worried that his self esteem is being bashed just as his older brother’s was.
Both boys have been treated as if they are lazy, and the youngest’s teachers complain that they find it hard to get him to do his work. When I work with him at home, he works well and enjoys learning. I feel that they should be finding ways to get him involved and interest him, but am so confused I don’t know how to deal with it anymore. The Teachers are always pleasant but seem to pass the buck back to me, could I do more phonics with him at home, can I read with him more at home, and I always seem to come away with more work to do with him at home.
I would be so grateful if you could offer me any advice on how to approach my younger son’s School and also what to be looking for in my eldest’s sons Secondary School.
Look forward to hearing from you. Thanks. Avril
Dear Averil,
I am sorry for not getting back so soon but I was back at work on Monday, But I went out this morning and came back as I couldn’t walk due to black ice. I am off again so I have plenty of time.
Ok lets start with your oldest son, this is what happens. Because of a lack of understanding and ignorance children are not diagnosed and given the label ” Dypraxia” when it is to late. Motor Skills develop by 7 so your son will be ok at sport”now” but I am afraid the years of doing nothing has caused the difficulties. He is very bright in that things go in but cant come out, and because these children are articulate they seem lazy. If they acted thick(sorry) they would be m,ore of a problem. How many times have I heard “he’s a clever bugger he’s only messing about” I had a child who came to me from another school that had failed him and given him the label “Dyslexic” when he had severe dyspraxia. He was 8 and we put him on the programme and his motors were strengthened but he still could not read,write or spell. We had his eyes tested by an optometrist who said he had peripheral vision of half a cm. He had light therapy but one of the things that moved him on was a lap-top (I know it’s expensive but schools are funded for special needs) He wrote using this, he spell checked and then wrote it out after. Because we had taken the pressure out of balancing, forming letters, punctuation, spelling, sentence construction, holding the pencil correctly ect. his writing improved. I have sent an attachment to show before (reception age writing/he was 8 years old) and then 2 years after. His school nurse tested for fucus and said his vision was fine and I sent the hand writing to the Ed pys who diagnosed dyslexia. He is now at high school. If you discuss his situation they will be ready and if not I will give you more advice. In fact if you get there e-mail address I can act on your behalf as you are able by law to have someone to do this and I could see what they have to offer.
The good news is that he also had a brother, who is now 5 years old, and is in year 1. He was exactly like middle son and I was waiting for him,your son (it is comman to have siblings and I have had 15 groups over the years of brothers and sisters) and he went on the programme of exercises. He was on a year with 6 others and they are all back in class with no difficulties (sorted) So if you get your son now you will make a difference. All children are different, if you read my book it says about a little girl who just drew all the time but she couldn’t walk in a striaght line, catch a ball and was away with the faires. You cant keep doing phonics because his brain isn’t co-ordinated so it cant learn. You need to co-ordinate and balance his body then his brain will work. I will send the exercises and if you start with jumping and then hopping first and when he can do this I will guide you through the rest. It could take a year but he will sart working at the same time. Its a good idea to start with basic phonic sounds (letters and sounds) as he will have missed alot of the basic ones because of his motor difficulties. If you could get his school to start a programme that would save them thousands and many children struggling over the years.
Good luck
Hazel
I have just got your e-mail and thank you for your comments, they were very kind and the reason I do this job is to feel valued. I am so plesed that your school has taken on some of my advice and seem interested in trying. Can I just say I should never critisice schools because for years and years I was one of the ignorant and called children “lazy” because I didnt understand what motor skills difficulties could do. If your school takes a chance like ours did, you will truly be amazed at the difference. It also deals with many other SEN difficulties that are mis-diagnosed (through lack of knowledge) when MSD was the route cause. Our school used to have lots of behaviour issues due to avaiodance strategies used because children couldn’t do work due to MSD. Now thats gone we have a normal (sorry) happy and calm school (well! as normal as aniimals can be)
Hi! Would really like to hear from you regarding help/advice you could give to me as my 15 yr old son is having serious trouble at school, and they say that he is too old to bother about because he leaves school next summer. I was diagnosed dyspraxic at College last year, and my youngest son has it more severely than myself and my oldest son. I have not had any luck in finding ways to help the every day challenges we all have; I just got used to dealing with mine, but I would love to know that despite the edcuational system not giving a plop about my kids, at least I continue to try fighting for them! Any helpful advice…..buy a book or whatever would be sooooooooo appreciated!
I was studying something else about this on another blog. Interesting. Your position on it is diametrically contradicted to what I read to begin with. I am still contemplating over the opposite points of view, but I’m tipped heavily toward yours. And irrespective, that’s what is so super about modern democracy and the marketplace of thoughts online.
Hello there,
I am so happy to have found your site. My son was diagnosed in Nov this year with Dyspraxia. He will be 5 in march. He started school in Sept 09 and luckily the school picked it up straight away. They noticed he had poor pencil grip, his handedness was not decided, (90% of hte time he is left handed) he has difficulty writing etc, and that he had very high activity levels. He will often run around the room and has difficulty staying in his seat. Luckily all the teachers tell us that he is very intelligent and he is very interested in learning, its just obvious there is a mis-match between his verbal and written output. At the moment the behaviour is the worrying thing, he also goes swimming once a week and today he kept jumping in and out of the pool and nothing the teacher would say could make him sit still. Unfortunately, the HSE (Health Service Executive) here in Ireland is atrocious and we have to take him to Occupational Therapy weekly and fund it ourselves at EUR100 a pop. The initial assessment cost up 400! Is there anything that we should be doing at home to help him out? we ar looking at shelling out 5000EUR this year on therapy, which we dont mind doing, but is one session a week enough? Surely we have to follow up at home?
I am off now to buy your book on amazon. Would love to know if you ever do seminars in the Dublin area.
Any tips much appreciated,
All the best
Mary
first I will start with you Bert, I am delighted that you are swaying maybe to my side. I wish all the schools in the world (I’m aiming big here) would do this as I have found something so simple that works. Unlike your writing that is very impressive, but like many books about Dyspraxia is very daunting. I dont cure Dyspraxia and other difficulties mis-diagnosed, I prevent them at an early age. You can come and see for yourself any time as our school makes a difference every day.
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Do you have any advice for improving memory? My son is 11. He was diagnosed with dyspraxia when he was 5. It is only recently that I have discovered that short term memory problems are a symptom of dypraxia. It is driving me to distraction that we lose coats, books etc etc at school and I am concerned how he will manage when he goes to high school in sept.
The memory question I am afraid I have left the message on the Biography bit Sorry!
Rght Mary! First of all your son is very lucky because at 5 you can prevent the damage being done. Many of my children were being diagnosed with ADHD when in fact the root cause was their motor skills difficulties(MSD) I had a child who was being restrained in Nursery as he was that bad. If a childs body is unbalanced they move around alot, NASA calls it space sickness. One child said they felt sick if they sat still because they were always dissy. The children all went on the programme and their bodies were balanced and Hey! pesto! they all calmed down. Can I just say this thing about being unintelligent is so wrong, it goes in but cant come out. If your child is not sorted out now because of the MSD he will be in danger ofgetting learning difficulties, low self esteem and possibly behaviour problems due to all this and more.The really good news is that I was going to my late husbands family in October 2009 and met up with Harry Conway who is in charge of the Dublin based Dyspraxia association. I screen children for nothing (I have been taught by an Educational Psychologist and a DR) I would love to set up programmes in Irish schools by teaching TA’s, I already do this around here. You dont have to spend 100’s of Euro’s. Get in touch with Harry, if you all club together I am sure you could get me their and I will show you how I do it. I see little miracles happening every day and children smiling now instead of struggling and unhappy for years. You child could be one of them and it’s FREE.
Hello , my son is 10 and will enter his last year in jnr school september. He is well above his age group in maths , science. & general knowledge. We always knew he found co ordination hard. It took us a couple of years of one too one lessons to enable him to swim - he would learn one week and forget the next , the same with riding a bike. At primary school they gave him extra exercise lessons –hopping etc, and he went to extra handwriting classes a couple of years ago. He has never been statemented though I have a feeling school may have thought something was up , sending him too extra lessons - though they never actually told us. All the way through he has a problem with his writing and he has made little progress this year so that he is now 1-2 year behind whereas he 2 yrs above in math /reading. I have only realized he probably has motor dyspraxia after searching google.(He still is a messy eater and can loosely tie his laces) Now this is my quandary , my son says he was embarrassed going out of class for extra handwriting lessons - when I chatted to him saying maybe I should ask school for extra handwriting lessons (I was going to see the head and ask abut SEN) he was very upset saying he was embarrassed going out of class and got quite distraught( we have worked hard to get his self esteem up and don’t want to bring it down ) we are thinking of paying a tutor who may have experience with motor dyspraxia so he can do it at home and we will carry on with various physical stuff. Can we help him as much at home as doing it through school or will he be losing out. Do we let him be labeled ( and no we don’t have a problem with it) through school ( he will have a problem with this - though of course we wouldn’t tell him - but kids his age know that if you go to extra lessons your usually SEN and kids are cruel ). Is our support and outside tuition enough to help him through - or would do we go against his wishes and go through school as it would be the better course. ??? All replies and experiences welcome .thank you.
Debbie, he just sounds like a boy who came to me from another school who was eight. I am getting steve our IT man at work to put some evidence on thuis blog to show you what happened after a year. The first year he did the exercises in my book and achieved everything with his motor skills but still he didnt progress with his writing which was as bad as reception children. I had realized that if childrens bodies were unbalanced so was their basic skill not formed of tracking a moving object (needed for reading from books and boards and writing) a school nurse tests for focus not fusion, fields and flexibility. He went to an obtometrist who tested his eyes and found he couldnt track and had periferal vision of about half a centemetre. He had light therapy (watchinjg moving lights in the dark and after a year could write better that me. The more you make your son write the worse he will get and so will his self esteem. My son was exactly the same and luckily he went to college (his high school were not at that time) and they gave him verbal exams and he is now a trained chef. Please try this but also it wont harm him with my exercises as on TV they had a man of 40 doing exercises at the DORE centre and it made a difference. Mine is free, though you pay hundreds for their pleasure.
Hi Hazel, I have a son aged 8 1/2, he diagnosed with dysplexia by Ed Psych and dysplaxia by OT. His reading is “only 2 years behind” so he doesnt receive addition help in school. OT has recommended some core strength exercises which he relunctanly does. His writing is very poor, do most dyspraxic kids write better in joint?, his teacher has said there isn’t much point he him learning joint as he hasn’t mastered basic print. He speaks very fast and almost rythmic, ending words with “a” sound. Cannot run as fast as others and is very self conscious re sports. Has recently started pony riding (thought it would be good to have a hobby/sport which doesnt rely on others). I am concerned at this stage as he is a bright child but just isn’t grasping literacy and problem solving maths.
My 2nd son is almost 5 and just commenced school. He has been attending speech therapy for 1 year and is making slow progress. I would greatly appreciate any advice on helping my 8 year old and hopefully preventing some difficulties for my youngest.
Fiona, Thats what happens unfortunately, OT’s and Ed Pysch’s dont get together, so dont realise that (as I have) that the Dyspraxia has caused the dyslexia. Unco-ordinated motor skills stop you learning. As with my son and many children in this world these children are very clever as it goes in but can’t get out. He will never master Literacy unless you deal with his motors, you can either forget about literacy skills and find something he can do, and achieve (My son started cooking and is now a trained chef) or buy my book and try the exercises. You need to start teaching from scratch so you are putting back what he has missed.If you start both brothers on the programme and teach them the same (Trust me I did this and the older one suddenly started catching up really quickly) The evidence of handwriting was from a boy who caught up with is literacy by 2 year in 6 months. He will also hate PE as he can’t do it. Try and find something that will boost his self esteem (horse riding will also be good for balance) Now your second son… this is really good news in that you can do something about it. Dyspraxia is nearly always in siblings and everyone of the children I’ve dealt with have come to have younger brothers/sisters on the programme. All my childrenm with speech therapy have made progress since being on the programme as their speech was co-ordinated due the their bodies being unco-ordinated, once this was sorted so was their speech. Again speech therapists and Ot’s dont get together they just all put it down as the years go by and difficulties get worse. I will guide you through the programme if you want and if you work hard you will see the difference.
Apologies for delay in reading your email. I ordered your book this morning, should receive it in 2/3 days. Is it a case of just working my way through the exercises? I’m feeling really positive and just hope I can help my sons.
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Hi, i am susan form Malaysia. It was a pleasent suprise that i found your website. My daughter is 14 this year and she has been diagnosed with dyspraxia. Over here in Malaysia not many people heard of Dyspraxia.So i can’t get any help here. I read from many website about it and trying to help my daughter. Do you think it is too late to start any of the excercise you were talking about? How can i help my daughter ?
Susan (my sisters name) Unfortunately I have never worked with children this age as I try to aim for early intervention before any eduactional damage is done. I saw a TV programme that had been about a Dad and daughter who both had Dyspraxia and after they both did it together the results where amazing. The thing is famous footballers and atheletes can have it if they only use feet or arms but it is the co-ordination of both. Please try and let me know by my e mail address as I would love to know. A boy of 10 did it with me for 2 years but we had to go back to reception teaching but it worked and he caught up. Good luck!
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Helen, do you think you could email me with your contact details? I have just come across your work in a roundabout way via a LinkedIn goup. I am a qualified teacher with special interest in developmental delay and specific learning difficulties and I would love to have a chat with you about the possibilities in schools etc. If you send me your phone number, I will happily ring you.
Looking forward to hearing from you,
Paul
My name is Hazel but look at the aaaa “workshop” bit and you can email if you want me or not if you wanted Helen